Let me start off by saying by no means do you HAVE to be friends first to have an amazing relationship,  however this is from my personal experience and I wouldn't have it any other way in my case. I love that I began as friends with my fiance when we were younger because I feel like being friends first creates a really strong base for your relationship,  my fiance knows things about me that make a world of difference in how he responds to me. In various situations if we hadn't been friends before he wouldn't understand how I was reacting to things. With my anxiety for example,  he's learned much more through our 4.5 years together but he knew a good amount beforehand as well. One example is how I used to eat in the kitchen at our church because all the people stressed me out. Sometimes he'd even bring me food so I wouldn't have to go get it. Because of seeing that and experiencing that in our friendship he knew recently exactly what w...

So I decided to do a post a little different tonight, How do you know when you've found the one? I'm certainly not an expert on this and don't have exact answers, but I'm curious on you guys thoughts.  Right now I KNOW I'm with the guy I wanna spend the rest of my life with. I can't imagine being with anyone else and I never want to.  I have honestly never been so in love or cared so deeply about someone. I'm finding the longer I'm with him, the harder it is when he has to leave and go home, like every time he leaves he's taking a tiny piece of me away and it isn't back until I see him again.  You can even ask him,  I get so sad when he has to leave. It's honestly ridiculous,  but I just miss him so much and we can only see each other a couple times a week most if the time.  I honestly can't wait till we can finally be engaged and married so he doesn't have to leave anymore.  And for me, I think that's h...

Today is my boyfriend and my 2nd anniversary of dating so i thought it was a good day to do The Mini Boyfriend Tag. :) 1. Where did we meet? We met at our church when his family moved here when I was 10 and he was 8. 2. What was our first date? Our first official date was I believe possibly a movie? I honestly don't remember and neither does he. We're horrible lol 3. Where was our first kiss & how was it? We actually have not had our first kiss yet, we were waiting for various reasons so I have no idea when it may occur. Whether soon or our wedding day. 4. Did you know they were the one? I know he is absolutely without a doubt the one. I can't see myself ever being with any other man but him. 5. What was your first impression? Well since I met him when we were kids my first impression was that he was a cute kid. But he's younger than me by 2 years so that's all I saw him as at first was a child. 6. When did you meet the family? I m...